Female Sexual Dysfunction

[lackinglust]

The title says it all. I don't know what to do anymore. I am very lucky to have such a patient and faithful husband. I lost my sex drive completely after having baby #2, once I get into the act I eventually become aroused, however I never initiate since there is no drive whatsoever. My husband also has been working midnights which is actually 6p.m. to 6 a.m. at his work since just after baby #2 which then means we don't even sleep together anymore anyway so there's that lack of closeness as well. I guess I just don't know what to do!! Any advice please?????

[rijman]

I don't have the answer for you but at least you are seeking out answers and appear to be genuinely concerned about your husband's sex life. Too many women are in a similar situation but do not actively look for solutions or have concern for their husbands. When wives lose interest in sex it is typically the husbands who suffer the most. By recognizing the problem you are well on your way to the solution, so best of luck.

[sensovi]

I work in the field of sexual health and relationships and I can say that this is one of the most common issues that brings couples in for counseling. I would urge you to seek professional help. It is an investment of money and time (and emotions, etc) but it is worth the effort if it saves your marriage.

Another option would be to join an online support group or online learning program. We have a group called E-Sensual Woman that is a monthly class and an online support group with learning modules developed by a certified sex therapist. This option is cheaper and women can go at their own pace.

Whatever option you choose, I hope that you will be proactive and take steps towards the intimacy and sexual satisfaction that you both deserve.

- Becky
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[kto]

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[kto]

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[gina3210]

get in to marital counseling asap.. before its too late and the damage is too deep to repair...
women need to feel emotionally connected in order to desire sex... which is probably the main
reason you have low desire... also hormonal reasons after having a baby could come into play..

from experience.. ive been there.... sounds like you want to work and fix this.. just dont wait..
do it now.. with or without your husband, you need help